You Reap What You Sow in Relationship
Wednesday, July 23rd, 2008The old says it is better to have loved and lost then to never have love at all, the old also says that you reap what you sow, you get back what you give to others. How true is this when you are being cheated and dumped? If you are a buddhist you may call it “karma”, other people call it “what goes round comes around” but the BIBLE makes it very clear, “what you sow is what you reap.”
Love should be unconditionally, honest and faithful, love shouldn’t be one sided, what normally happens in a relationship in most cases is that what you give are often what you cannot expect in return. Love has no guarantee and rules, you cannot expect love if you don’t show love. The only love that can last for long is to love unconditionally, if it is one sided, it is often a short-term relationship or rebound. If you do not know what you need or want, don’t get into a relationship and realise that what you want is not what you need, you will hurt a soul and also waste his/her efforts puts into you.
Relationship is not a game, is not you can get in and out as you like, a true human being feelings and emotions is involve. A perfect and wonderful relationship should have care, forgiveness, sincerity, faithfulness, responsibility and HONESTY. A relationship must be HONEST and faithful to your partner, share the good and bad, responsibility and able to forgive each other. Lacking does not last a relationship long because it’s a one-sided relationship that has no emotional attachment between partners. If you do not have the emotions attachment you wouldn’t care, worried, or respect your partner and it is necessary the relationship does not last long. If you do not care, forgive, sincere, faithful, responsible and HONEST in the relationship you definitely do not get in return in your next relationship.
Relationship should be close to each other, comfortable, love and care. When there’s obstacles and arguments in a relationship, instead of focusing on hate and anger, both should be ready to forgive each other mistakes to strengthen the love. Walk hand in hand and responsible towards each other and make every effort together to give your best to each other to enjoy a long lovely and lasting relationship.
Honesty and faithfulness is a foundation of Love, what hold Love together is the trust between you and your partner. If you are not honest, the love would vanishes, if relationship has no trust, the relationship would not last long. As sooner of later your partner would come to know about it. Same goes to a breaks up, being honest would give you give an impression to your partner that you are worth to be with even the relationship does not work out. You get what you earn, being a good soul, honest and faithful to your partner would only leads to a romance relationship and your partner would treat you the same.
You reap what you sow if you are not honest and faithful in your previous relationship, the next relationship would come to bite you back. If it does not someday in your future when you are terribly sick, you may think of the past the bad thing you have done, you reap what you sow, you will feel the same pain you treated others.
It is very normal that you are good to people, you would get the same in return, if you are bad, you will get the same in return too. If you are reading this because you get cheated and dumped, I can assure you that you have done nothing wrong and if something never kill you, it will make you stronger, instead of focusing on the hatred, move on with your life rather than sitting there hoping your ex would get hurt by “KARMA”, because one day he/she would feel the same painful feeling you suffer today. Good things comes to those who wait, you deserve a better soul. Trust me!