Charisma, can you earn it?
I often find charisma something that cannot be earned, and it’s either born with or not. It’s some kind of magical or mysterious magnetism that one had. If you asked me what is charisma, I would depict charisma as someone who is outstanding, successful and attracting attention (good qualities) when he/she appeared in public and do not have to put extra efforts to tell anyone.
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I have seen and admire charismatic people who has strong sense of presence who can light up a room immediately and command respect when approach, it makes everyone looks small. This kind of quality is something money can’t buy, and it’s good to have to gain acceptance and respect whenever you are. When I wrote this, it reminds me about a girl in my life who had charisma but did not utilize the power of charisma she has to achieved what she wants, although at one glance, she may look highly intellectual, sophisticated, successful and rich but in reality, she’s somewhat opposite, the things she likes and ways of thinking is not what I perceived as charisma when I first took it. I slowly realize that the charisma she has isn’t something to shout about when it comes to reality.
Although, this may not always be the case, there’s always an odds case happen, people with charisma are often somewhat different, their magnetic personality, confident level, body language and the ways their emotion influence other are intrigue. Well, it’s not necessary charisma need to be rich and live luxury, charisma people make other feels good about themselves in a way that is not overwhelming. Charisma cannot be fake or pretend as it comes out naturally from his/her characteristic. It’s some kind of unexplained attraction signals that is pure in every way. Charisma can be good and evil, some people can use charisma to manipulate one mind and manipulate situation to do bad things. If you posses one, make sure you use it in a positive and productive manner that guarantee you a prosperous and happiness life to fulfill with. Charisma is a gift from GOD, if you possed one, be proud of it as it not just give other but give right back to you in the process.
Tags: body language, charisma, personal magnetic, respect