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I often find charisma something that cannot be earned, and it’s either born with or not. It’s some kind of magical or mysterious magnetism that one had. If you asked me what is charisma, I would depict charisma as someone who is outstanding, successful and attracting attention (good qualities) when he/she appeared in public and do not have to put extra efforts to tell anyone.

I have seen and admire charismatic people who has strong sense of presence who can light up a room immediately and command respect when approach, it makes everyone looks small. This kind of quality is something money can’t buy, and it’s good to have to gain acceptance and respect whenever you are. When I wrote this, it reminds me about a girl in my life who had charisma but did not utilize the power of charisma she has to achieved what she wants, although at one glance, she may look highly intellectual, sophisticated, successful and rich but in reality, she’s somewhat opposite, the things she likes and ways of thinking is not what I perceived as charisma when I first took it. I slowly realize that the charisma she has isn’t something to shout about when it comes to reality.

Although, this may not always be the case, there’s always an odds case happen, people with charisma are often somewhat different, their magnetic personality, confident level, body language and the ways their emotion influence other are intrigue. Well, it’s not necessary charisma need to be rich and live luxury, charisma people make other feels good about themselves in a way that is not overwhelming. Charisma cannot be fake or pretend as it comes out naturally from his/her characteristic. It’s some kind of unexplained attraction signals that is pure in every way. Charisma can be good and evil, some people can use charisma to manipulate one mind and manipulate situation to do bad things. If you posses one, make sure you use it in a positive and productive manner that guarantee you a prosperous and happiness life to fulfill with. Charisma is a gift from GOD, if you possed one, be proud of it as it not just give other but give right back to you in the process.

While on my surfing routines, I stumble upon askmen.com and found an excellent survey, the 2008 great male survey and 2008 great female survey. Recently askmen.com had just revealed the 2008 Great Male Survey and 2008 Great Female Survey. It’s an interesting survey to get to know the latest modern man and woman. There are a few survey that caught my surprise, I would share with you at the end of the post. The surveys is good to know as men are from mars and women are from venus, they tend to react and think differently, the survey gives a woman better ideas what an average man thinks and feels, while man can better understand what a woman wants.

Modern Man, they no longer being portrayed as insensitive, immature and commitment phobe, man are now more prior towards loyalty and family. Applause to all man and this would definitely benefits all woman out there.

Modern Woman, this may seems surprise as modern woman are now more bold, sexy and  not afraid to go after what they wants. My surprise is that women have more sex partners - 20% of women admitted to having had more than 15 sex partners, while only 17% of the male respondents said have had more than 15 partners.

Alright, here’s more of my surprises,

Men
77% of men look for girlfriends with “wife potential”
69% of men would never cheat on their partner
57% of men cook at home and enjoying doing it
56% of men said that being a good father or husband makes a man “manly”
That’s good, does that means more man would looks for wife potential rather than girlfriend potential? I am not sure how to differentiate them but I am sure that being a wife potential should be able to cooks, taking care of the childrens, faithful, lovely and understanding. Less man cheater? how true? great man don’t cheat and how I wish my next partner would not cheat and I have enough of those experienced and learned a lesson from life from a great pretender. We use to think that man who know how to play music instruments(piano, guitar and etc) are attractive, but not for France woman, because they finds cooking man attractive, I am not sure where I read the new but I think this is true, being a good father or husband should be able to cook and this really makes them “manly”.

Women
20% of women admitted to having had more than 15 sex partners versus 17% of the male respondents said have had more than 15 partners.
34% of females respondents said they would not change a thing about their lovers versus 17% of men said the same.
23% of female respondents are completely satisfied with their sex lives, versus 14% of males.
17% of the female respondents have lied to a partner about their sexual experiences versus 31% of men have lied. 

Women are always interested in sex and relationship, what can I says about modern woman, more open and more sex partners. Hmm … I am doubt but rather agreed. Modern woman is getting less demanding and sastified, “maybe?”.

Read the surveys? What you say?