People make mistakes in their life, and sometimes mistakes they made can jeopardize a person in different aspect of life, either financially, emotionally or physically. It is impossible to say that there isn’t anyone that does not have someone to hate from time to time, either the person has learnt to forgive or forgotten the incidents after going through a series of painful journey. They’ve learnt to let go and live better.
Moreover, we are not born to hate another person, but we must learn to hate in order to love, if you know how to hate, then you can be taught to love and love are always easier to be accept by human heart than hate.
I don’t know about others, but I do not have many people to hate in my life, if I do, either they have caused miserable in my life and robbed my trustworthy on them. Moving forward, I have learnt to trust a person wiser and reluctant to get myself being miserable than ever before. Each lesson changes your life; it’s all about part and parcel of learning cycles.
I would hope better but I don’t know. My belief is that people often make mistake in their life, and sometimes they aren’t aware about it until one day, they learned, you should hate and know why, by knowing what you hate and what cause you to suffer, it will give you a sense of forgiveness to let go with the pain you are suffering.
I understand that emotion is difficult to control, but to hate one person is difficult enough. If you hate them, write them down, why you hate them, burn it or throw them in the dustbin after you wrote, they no longer bother us. “What is not part of ourselves does not bother us.”
Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to a better understanding of ourselves - Carl Jung